As I strolled upon going to my good friend’s house, I saw a couple tickling each other in a bench which was near in the church. I don’t know if for them that was a normal thing for lovers. Many eyes were on them while they were doing those malicious things. I perspired profusely as the sun kept chasing me.
Minutes later, I got to my friend’s house. It’s been a while since the last time we see each other so as a result we had a long and funny convo. When things get plain and we have nothing to do, I asked my friend to switch the TV on. Wow! The scorching heat from the sun was extremely hot but the girls on Wowowilie were even hotter. The dancer wears short-shorts and ano-ba-yan-nagdamit-ka-pa tops while dancing in the beat of an intimate music. With all seriousness they were seriously sexy.
Before the day turned to night, I had to say goodbye and leave my friend’s house. I rode a jeepney from monumento to south. In the middle of my trip, there’s a noticeable things happening inside the jeepney. The guy was kissing his girl inside the vehicle. Passionately kissing. As if there’s no one could watch what they’re doing. Sayang maganda pa naman yung girl I thought to myself. It’s not that I was envy or what besides even if I will ever have a girl as pretty as that girl, I would not kiss her in public. With nothing compelling anymore to observe their acts, my mind wanders. Are they virgin? Imagine, they’re kissing passionately in public what more when they are only the two of them huh? Interesting. I am dying to know.
When I got to south supermarket, I had to walk for about 10 mins to reach the terminal. While walking I heard students (I believe they are in their high school) one was saying “open mo na yung Bluetooth papasa ko na sayo” the other one reacting on what they are watching from the mobile phone “Ang laki laki, fresh na fresh” Yes I know what they are watching by just hearing. And you know it too? Right?
In this 21st century, in the age of internet, social media and technologies we now all have easy access for sex. Yes sex. Social media usually buzzes whenever there’s a new uploaded private video from people who used to be our idol because they are great at what they do but suddenly they became more popular as they became the talk of the town. Everyone, even the boys and girls from grade school know everything, as if there’s nothing left for imagination. They might actually learn that from what they have seen. Everything in our place appears selling sex.
Can we just stop using the term private video for sex?
I mean why we should keep on calling something as private video when in the first place we already knew what’s inside that video. It’s sex. S-E-X. Look around, in every place, in every corner, in every side—sex is present.
All those thoughts led me to another concern.
Is keeping yourself a virgin before marriage really a virtue?
It may sound uncanny but when you look at it, you’ll see it is really happening. I believe most of us would want to have experience sex before they settle with their chosen one. Bat ako magtitiis maghintay? Bat ako magmamalinis? Lahat naman ginagawa yan eh yung iba nga vinivideo pa.
That reason, for some, thinks it is a valid motive to have pre-marital sex and let somebody take their virginity. While others patiently wait for their time to come as they always believe love is magical and sex would be sweeter if it involves true love. And of course if it has a blessing from Him. Committing sex outside marriage is like eating that last slice of your favorite pizza. Everyone wants to eat it, but no one has the audacity to take. And those who don’t take the sacred slice of pizza judge those who actually do.
Pano naman yung mga taong sinave ang sarili nila para sa future partner nila?
You save yourself for your future husband/wife thinking that virginity is the only gift you can ever give to your partner. Then bizarre things could happen, you end up with the person who is so f*cked up.
Unfair di ba? Dapat tabla-tabla lang. Pag di ka na virgin asawahin mo yung di na rin virgin. Tapos magsama sama lahat ng sinave ang sarili nila.
Is that imperative decree can ever be follow? (help me here Tito PNoy) Has its point right? I am not convincing anyone to sympathized with those thoughts all I am trying to say is can we just stop rising issues about sex when all we want is just to love and be love. Let me just clear things, I am anti pre-marital sex. Call me nuts. Go call me hypocrite. Sex is a holy act that only married people should exercise. It is the greatest food cooked by our greatest Chef and you can only savor every piece of ingredients if and only if you are ready to pay the bill.
Be careful on what you’re doing in your teen years for it would affect who you become when you are in your twenty’s. Relax, don’t be curious about sex. Love is greater than sex. What if the love of your life would leave you in vain when they found out that you’re too f*cked up? I know it’s morbid to think but you should thank me for bringing this up, perhaps you can reconsider what I am saying. Let’s face it, virginity could be a big factor in a relationship. Think every move you want to make, slow things down. It may contradict the saying Y.O.L.O make the most out of it. But I always believe sex is not a treat you should give to yourself. Love your girlfriend/boyfriend kiss their foreheads, hold their hands, hug them in theater. Give flowers, send sweet messages. When your Fate collides, you have all the time in the world for intimacy.
Yes I’d rather be with the girl who hasn’t dated much but I don’t close my door for the girl who may too f*cked up. When love strikes you, there’s nothing you can do but to pursue. JAdG twitter.com/awesomealvin028